One should, for example, be able to see that things are hopeless and yet be determined to make them otherwise.
i’m on the phone with a gay woman in her 60’s and she just told me she was attacked by a man one time so she bit the head of his dick off and spit it in the toilet
woman on tv is shown skydiving for her 90th birthday
- me: grandma you should do that for your next birthday
- her: ...she's probably got alzheimers